There’s a guy you fancy, and you think he may have the hots for you too but you’re too afraid to ask. Women have stronger instincts and usually know when a guy has a crush on them.
But sometimes we too get a little stumped. Luckily there are some fail-proof methods you can use to get him to confess he likes you.
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How to Get a Guy to Admit He Likes You
- Build trust
- Don’t just talk; listen more
- Show interest
- Discusses his feelings
- Don’t try too hard
- Be yourself
- Make him jealous
- Don’t always be available
- Don’t share all your secrets
- Appreciate him
- Find out more about his views on relationships
- Straight out ask him
Some guys may drop a million hints but won’t ever come out and just say it. He might even be playing the role of a boyfriend in your life but never actually give the relationship so much acclaim.
If that is the case, you will have to give him a little nudge because let’s face it, it can be a tad frustrating in relationship limbo.
Here are 12 tips on how to get a guy to admit he likes you:
1. Build trust
It is possible that the guy hasn’t fessed up to liking you because he doesn’t trust you enough yet. He may feel that if he tells you first, you’ll simply turn him down and may even mock him.
Just like women, guys like to feel safe before they share their emotions.
If he sees you as trustworthy, he will be more willing to open up. But, keep in mind that building trust is not going to happen overnight – give him enough time to trust you and make him feel comfortable to put himself out there.
2. Don’t just talk; listen more
Us ladies sure can talk a lot, especially when we’re really attracted to someone. However, no one likes to be part of a conversation that is made up of ‘me, me, me’ the whole time.
It’s more than okay for you to talk about yourself but it is important that you take a breather and listen to what he has to say too.
If you chat non-stop, you will discourage him and end up chasing him away. After all, if he can’t get in a word edgewise, how is he supposed to admit that he likes you?
3. Show interest
This builds on point number two; you have to show you’re interested in talking to him and getting to know him.
If he messages you asking what you are up to and you answer back ‘nothing much’, that doesn’t really show interest and ends the conversation right there.
You have to encourage him to chat with you by replying with more substance. Also, ask him questions about himself and what he likes and let him take all the time he needs to share what he feels comfortable with.
Good communication is very important in a healthy relationship so start things off the right way! Another positive aspect of encouraging communication is that it will help promote trust – the more the guy opens up, the more he trusts you.
4. Talk about feelings
So, after you had a nice long conversation about everything from the weather, politics to celebrity topics, you can open up a little bit more and chat about feelings.
Switching things to a deeper and more intimate level where you both can share your feelings will help him warm up to the idea of saying ‘hey, girl, I have feelings for you’.
5. Don’t try too hard
Fact: Guys don’t like clingy and desperate girls who try too hard. They don’t want to feel suffocated by you 24/7 and need space to breathe.
Thus, think twice or even three times before you send yet another text or tag him in another Facebook post. Give a man a chance to miss you (see point 8).
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6. Be yourself
Do you, boo! Don’t try to be someone you’re not to get a guy to like you. If it works out and you end up in a relationship, how tiring is it going to be to keep pretending?
Or worse yet, what if you show your true self and the guy ends up not liking you and it leads to heartbreak?
Anyway, who wants to be with a guy who doesn’t like you for you? Your ‘other’ personality may get and keep the man’s attention but, in the long run, it isn’t going to do you any good.
If the guy is worth your while, the real you will be more than enough for him.
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7. Make him jealous
This is a little underhanded but it may be just the push the guy needs to get him to say he’s into you.
Try flirting with other guys in front of him, if he really likes you, you’ll be able to see that it isn’t making him too happy. But girl, keep it classy. Know your limits and don’t go overboard.
8. Let him miss you
That saying ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’ really is true. Don’t make yourself available to him 24/7; think about it, if you’re always around someone it loses some of the excitement doesn’t it?
You want him to know that you have a life of your own and your whole existence doesn’t revolve around him.
Letting him miss you will make him want you more and who knows, maybe it will even make him admit he likes you.
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9. Don’t share all your secrets
Mystery keeps you interested so don’t let the cat out of the bag immediately, keep some parts of yourself secret.
You want him to stay curious, and he will come back, again and again, wanting to learn more about you. Share every little thing about you in one shot and there is a big chance that he will lose interest.
10. Appreciate him
A good ego stroke will go a long way in getting him to share his desires. Men like to feel proud about who they are, and a simple way you can do that is to let him know that you are aware of everything he is doing for you and appreciate the effort.
11. Find out more about his views on relationships
As you get to know him better, ask him about his views on relationships and commitment. You want to make sure that the two of you have the same opinions before either of you commit to a relationship.
12. Straight out ask him
This can be very scary. Putting yourself out there first opens you up to rejection but somebody has to take the plunge.
But sometimes, we don’t have the time or energy to decipher the clues he may be dropping so we decide to take the power into our own hands and straight-up ask, ‘do you have feelings for me?’
Guys may conceal their feelings for several reasons or they just lack the courage to be honest out of fear of rejection. So, in a way, you may actually be doing the guy a huge favor if you get him to admit that he likes you.
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Little Ways He’s Confessing His Feelings
Here are some things you can keep an eye out for to determine if he likes you before you waste your time on getting someone who is not interested to confess something that is not there.
He…
- keeps coming back
- initiates eye contact between you lasts for longer than three seconds
- behaves like a boyfriend
- is true to his words
- tells you things he won’t share with anybody else
- is protective of you
- talks about the future
- says there’s something different about you
- says he ‘doesn’t usually do this’
- is always around
- introduces you to his friends first
- takes care of you
- asks why you are single
Okay, now that you know how to get a guy to come out and say he likes you, you can decide if you want him to say it first – no matter how long it takes – or if you want to take charge and straight out ask him if he’s into you.
That being said, remember, whoever admits love first does lose a little power in the relationship.
It’s strange, but in our childish ways, we see the person who first admits their feelings as a way of handing over ‘power’ to the other person. But who cares, if you find out the guy likes you, does it really matter who has the power?
