So, you want to date a rich girl?
Contrary to popular belief, it’s not all caviar, champagne, and exclusive swarays (the English term for a posh party).
Okay, so sometimes you don’t plan these things, and they just happen. The girl of your dreams just turns out to be rich.
Chances are you never imagined you’d fall for a rich girl – but you did, and now you need some dating tips.
Or, you’re adamant you want to find a sophisticated rich girl who you can interact with on a new level.
So, is dating a rich girl really that different from dating a girl who has to be more careful with her money?
How to Meet a Rich Woman?
Don’t expect to walk into your local coffee house and bump into the rich woman of your dreams. Sorry to burst your bubble, but this isn’t the movies.
I mean, this could happen, BUT in reality, it’s unlikely too.
Besides, you don’t have to be a millionaire to grab a latte. So unless you learn how to spot designer bags and listen out for a posh accent, telling a rich girl apart from a not-so-rich girl, well, it isn’t necessarily that easy.
So, how do you go about meeting a rich woman and bagging that date?
It’s in the Venue
The fact remains that you’re far more likely to find someone rich if you visit expensive places.
I’m talking about luxury spas, swanky restaurants, and high-end boutiques.
So, if you really want to meet rich women, then you need to save up your money and go to a posh venue.
Although, I suppose you could always linger outside, although doing so might look a bit odd.
If you do step foot in that five-star restaurant, then you may find a rich girl – or you may just end up leaving with a dent in your wallet.
Take it Online
In this modern age of dating, there are plenty of dating sites out there.
Some have less stringent rules on who can join up – Tinder, for instance, but then finding a rich girl on here, well, I wouldn’t count on it, while other dating apps have professionals seeking a like-minded person in mind.
EliteSingles.com is a popular dating site among young professionals. It matches you up with potential partners – and because it costs a monthly fee, it’s far more likely to attract serious (and possibly rich) people.
Okay, so I don’t recommend sending that attractive woman a message saying: “Hey, are you rich?” but this doesn’t mean you can’t ask her questions to find out more about her.
If she says she likes fine dining, the theater, and that swanky wine bar in town, then it sounds like she’s a successful woman who isn’t short on cash.
As good as the online world can be for dating, remember that it’s easy for people to put a false facade here.
She may come across as successful, but until you meet someone and get to know them, you can’t truly know for sure what they’re like.
No matter what someone’s bank balance is, chances are they’re after a kind, chatty man who makes them feel at ease.
Dress the part – no, you don’t have to wear designer clothes, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t make an effort with your appearance.
Style your hair, polish your shoes, pick out a smart shirt, and spray some aftershave.
If you look and act the part, then you’re far more likely to impress that rich girl, and hopefully bag yourself a date.
The Downside of Dating a Rich Girl
Okay, so money isn’t a problem for that rich girl – that’s great and all, but it doesn’t mean that money isn’t a problem for you.
We know this is the twenty-first-century, but that doesn’t mean you’re going to be comfortable with her paying for you both. In fact, most men would shudder at the mere thought of this!
It might be that you suggest taking her to cheaper restaurants, but is this going to leave you feeling uncomfortable?
So, this girl’s used to dining out in Michelin star establishments, you know the kind, they have lots and lots of courses, the portion sizes are minuscule, and the bill will make your eyes water.
The good news is that not all rich girls expect you to get into debt just so they can live the high life.
In fact, if she’s the girl for you, she should accept you for you, money or not, and be happy to compromise.
Okay, so going from smoked salmon mousse to a greasy, cheese-laden pizza may take some getting used too – but remember, she’s not an alien species. She’s still a person.
Chances are she’s just used to going to different places than you, that’s all.
Don’t Try to Compete.
One of the main mistakes guys make when dating a rich girl is to try and compete with her spending habits.
Don’t do this as this will only result in serious arguments and an empty wallet.
It’s the thought that counts, right?!
So, that rich girl bought you a designer shirt, and all you could afford to get her were some bargain-priced chocolates.
This could result in you sulking because you can’t compete with her on the gift-buying stakes – if your male pride’s dented, then stop and think about it, you choose to date her knowing her wealth.
You could always politely tell her how you feel when she buys you expensive stuff.
But in doing this, the chanced are the expensive gifts will stop, but she’ll still expect cheap chocolates.
If she’s annoyed with you for not buying her expensive gifts that she knows you can’t afford – well, then it sounds like she’s the one who needs the reality check.
Don’t fall into the ‘gift dread’ vortex, as life’s far too short for that.
You like her. She likes you. So eat the cheap chocolates and quit worrying about petty things…
The Problem is She has No Problems.
Okay, so this can’t be true – rich girl or not, we all have problems.
It’s most likely that you feel like her problems aren’t the same as yours.
Does she have a posh apartment, an expensive car, and a generous allowance monthly allowance from her parents?
You might feel like she has it all, while you barely have any change left over at the end of each month.
Then she dares to moan about things or to feel sad.
Remember that wealth doesn’t erase everyone’s problems.
Even a rich girl is still allowed to feel sad, so even if you think it’s over something petty, getting annoyed with her other, this is only going to cause tension.
You Feel Anxious Around Her Family
If she’s rich, then chances are she also has rich parents.
Okay, so you didn’t have the luxury of a middle-class upbringing, then it’s easy to feel like her dad’s looking down at you.
If you call your girlfriend out on the snide comment her dad made about your job, then chances are she will get defensive about this.
I get it from your point of view, as no one wants to feel belittled – but look at it from her perspective, no one likes hearing bad things said about their family.
It may be that her dad doesn’t think you’re good enough for his daughter – or it may be the fact you’re feeling uncomfortable and therefore acting extra sensitive toward the situation.
You have to remember that her family is important to her, so whether you’re rich or not, prove to them that you care about her and want to look after her.
It may take some time and effort, but all any parent really wants is for their child to be happy, whether this is with a self-made millionaire or a caring guy with a normal job.
You Don’t Always Understand Her.
Her middle-class background may mean she grew up with horse-riding lessons, exotic vacations, and a taste for fine dining.
Sometimes, when you overhear her talking to her friends about people, places, and past events, it seems like she’s talking in another language.
Yes, you were both born on the same planet.
Still, you could find yourself resenting her for this and no longer seeing the good in your relationship, but only the parts of it that make you both so different.
Money, money, money
They say money is the root of all evil – and well, at times, it can be.
A big problem when you date a rich woman is that she doesn’t have to think before she buys, while it may be that money is always on your mind.
The more she buys without a second thought, the more annoyed you’re likely to begin.
Having different values regarding money is a big deal, as well, money is a big deal.
Whether we like it or not, we need it to function in society.
So, dating someone who doesn’t have to check the price tag before she buys may not understand why you’re sweating at the prospect of taking her out on a date.
Yes, dating a rich woman means you might meet new people, go to new places and try new things, but it could also raise new worries concerning your finances that you previously didn’t have to think about.
How to Marry a Rich Woman
All proposals begin at the beginning – so before you can think about putting a ring on her finger, then firstly, you have to meet her.
When you find the rich woman of your dreams, then show her how committed to her you are, and regardless of your differences, you want to spend your life with her.
Yes, buying the ring may prove costly, then there are the struggles of planning the dream wedding…
But it’s important to remember that wealth isn’t everything.
Be honest with her from the start about your finances. Don’t lie to impress her, as she’ll find out the truth eventually, and resent you for it.
Even though marrying that rich girl may seem terrifying, it should also be an exciting time in both of your lives.
Love is love, whether they have a six-figure sum in their bank account or ten bucks.
For a relationship to lead to marriage, then you need to have solid foundations with someone.
As however good something may seem, the fact remains money doesn’t buy happiness.
Dating a Rich Girl: An Overview
Man meets a rich girl, falls in love, and lives happily ever after…
Um, yeah, maybe but not always!
The dating vortex is full of the good, the bad, and the stressful.
Having the means to buy new things certainly helps in life, but it doesn’t define a person.
I’m not saying don’t date rich women. If that’s what you want to do, then do it.
But it’s important to remember that middle class or not; she’s just a girl standing in front of a man and longing to find ‘the one.’